Once his residency is over, you'll have more time together, but that's going to be a while from now. All those are reasons to give the church some elbow room but they are not reasons for actually staying. We are indeed in two different places. How do you feel about that.
Now he is into his second year, the schedule has improved some and so has his libido: I am married to an intern this is his first year residency, unfortunatley he didn't match so this is only a pre-lim year and now I know in my thoughts we may have to move again, so I get upset when I think why even try and get attached to the community, neighbors, new friends As humans we really need people in our lives especially in a time like this, although we might have to move again and go through the whole match process again there is still hope and there is still a very much needed assist with friends, and family in our lives. After all, when he IS around, he never makes them do anything they don't want to do, and he buys them expensive things to make up for being absent from their lives so much. Not the end of the world. Every new set in our ward looks at him as fresh meat.